When a child melts down in public or refuses to eat, the world sees “bad behaviour." But often, what looks like defiance or poor parenting is actually neurodivergence — and a family doing their best in a system that doesn't understand them. In this deeply validating conversation, Jane sits down with Tracey Jewel — author, advocate, and mum of a neurodivergent family — to talk about reframing “bad parenting" through a neurodiverse lens. From ARFID and sensory overload to the grief and joy of parenting differently, this episode challenges the idea of what a “good parent" looks like and celebrates authenticity over appearances.