SPECIAL REPORT: Parenting Styles

There's no such thing as perfect parenting. Every family is unique, and every child's needs are different. But by understanding the various parenting styles, we can make more thoughtful choices that support our children's growth in healthier and more effective ways.

Most of us parent as a blend of our own upbringing, lived experiences and external influences such as books, podcasts or parenting websites. Parenting is one of the most rewarding roles in life, but it is also one of the most challenging. The journey can be further complicated by circumstances such as divorce, separation, blended families, trauma or bereavement. Not to mention the many everyday pressures and hurdles that families face.

The idea of "parenting styles" has been researched for decades, showing that the way we interact with, nurture, and guide our children has a significant impact on their development. Whilst there are a number of different approaches, research consistently shows that children thrive when parents and caregivers are both warm and loving, while also providing clear guidance, structure and support. This balance helps children feel safe and valued, while also encouraging independence, resilience and emotional wellbeing.

By learning more about the different styles and how they influence children, you can make informed choices about the approach that best suits your family. And remember, styles are not fixed. They can evolve over time as your child grows and their needs change.

 

 

Poll

Parenting Quiz: What type of parent are you?

To discover your own parenting style, complete the quiz below, and you'll receive a personalised report sent directly to your email. You might also like to compare your results with your partner's and reflect together on the different approaches you each bring to parenting.

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What would you do if another parent tells you that your teenage daughter has a love interest?

Your son’s room is a mess and needs to be cleaned, but he has made plans to play soccer with his friends in the morning. What do you do?

Your daughter borrows your expensive new camera for an excursion and promises to look after it. Upon return it, she tells you that a friend used it and broke it. However, upon closer inspection, it's obvious that it fell into some water. What do you say?
Your 7-year-old son has been acting up at school and his teacher notifies you that he's been hitting other children in the playground. How do you react?

Your 6-year-old daughter is afraid of the dark convinced there's a boogieman hiding under her bed. What do you do?

The family pet has died suddenly and your 9-year-old son is very upset. How do you deal with the situation?
Your usually vibrant and attentive teenage son has become somewhat reclusive and quiet. What do you do?
If my partner made an important decision regarding our children, without discussing it, how would I feel about this?
A police officer brings home your teenage son who skipped school and was caught smoking marijuana. How do you react?
I want my children to:
Your son comes home with newly dyed purple hair. What do you say?
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